5 Wedding Traditions You Can Skip for a Modern Celebration

Weddings are a tapestry of traditions, but in a world where couples are increasingly looking to personalize their celebrations, some time-honored customs are being reconsidered.

Planning & Design: Kesh Events | Photography Rudney Novaes

At Kesh Events, we believe your wedding day should reflect who you are as a couple, even if that means deviating from tradition. Here are five wedding traditions that modern couples can confidently skip to make their day truly their own.

1. The White Wedding Dress: For centuries, the white wedding dress has been a symbol of purity and tradition. But today's brides are embracing the full spectrum of color to express their personal style. From blush pinks to bold prints, there’s a rainbow of possibilities out there. And for those who dare to be different, chic jumpsuits and tailored suits are proving that bridal wear is not just about the dress anymore.

2. The Garter and Bouquet Toss: Once a staple of the reception, the garter and bouquet toss are now often seen as outdated and even uncomfortable for some guests. Instead, couples are choosing to share these flowers and moments in new ways, like presenting the bouquet to a special family member or inviting all the singles out for a group dance, celebrating everyone’s individual journey.

3. Not Seeing Each Other Before the Ceremony: The suspense of not seeing each other before the aisle walk is no longer a necessity. Many couples now opt for a ‘first look’ – a private moment before the ceremony. This not only calms nerves but also allows for more intimate photographs and a little quiet time before the day's festivities begin.

Planning & Design: Kesh Events | Photography Rudney Novaes

4. The Traditional Guest Book: While it's lovely to have a memento of who attended your wedding, the traditional guest book often ends up on a shelf, rarely looked at again. Couples are turning to more interactive and meaningful options, like signing a piece of art, a bottle of wine to be opened on an anniversary, or even a digital guestbook that can include photos and videos.

5. The Formal Sit-Down Dinner: A formal multi-course meal can be a delight, but it can also stifle the social flow of the evening. Modern couples are opting for food stations, family-style meals, or even food trucks to create a more relaxed and interactive dining experience. This not only reflects the couple’s favorite cuisines but also encourages guests to mingle.

Your wedding day is a reflection of your love story and individuality, and Kesh Events is here to help you craft a day that's as unique as your bond. Whether you choose to honor certain traditions or pave your own way, remember, the most important tradition is the one that makes your heart sing.

Are you ready to create a wedding day that breaks the mold? Connect with us at Kesh Events, and let’s plan a celebration that transcends tradition and is authentically you. Visit www.keshevents.com to start your journey toward a bespoke wedding experience

Akeshi Akinseye

Akeshi Akinseye is the founder and CEO of Kesh Events and is the leading expert in the wedding and event industry on all things celebrations.

She is widely regarded as One of the best Wedding planners in America by Brides, Top 5 wedding vendors in the world by WEDLUXE, top wedding planner in Chicago by PartySlate and more. 

Her insights and work have been featured in national publications like Brides, PartySlate, Modern Luxury Weddings, Inside Weddings, Yahoo, ESPN, New York Times etc and she appears regularly in media outlets like ABC, The Tribune and more.

She is the author of the best-selling book, The Art of Floral And Event Design” and founder and editor of celebrations and lifestyle magazine, The Art of Celebrating. Her creativity, keen eye, attention to detail and knack for perfection is what her clients love about her. She brings the art of creativity and personalization to every single event making her the best at what she does. Akeshi honors the individual styles of her clients and she continually strives to make every experience one to remember.

http://www.akeshiakinseye.com
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